Money, Enemies and Family

You didn't take the advice given by a friend and you are going to suffer the consequences. This draw shows a person who has failed to learn the lessons given to them by someone close, and who finds themselves in the difficult situation they were warned about. If you had listened, the problem would not have happened. You're going to blame yourself for not being attentive enough. Moreover, this is a trait people often blame you for: once you have an idea in your mind, it's difficult to change it and convince you of its opposite.

Listening to other people is one of the basics in life. If you always refuse to listen to ideas that run contrary to how you see your life, you will never evolve and you will always end up making the same errors. We are the sum of those around us because we base our behavior on theirs, we are subject to their influences; we all derive benefits from the people with whom we live.

If you close yourself off to this, it's because you don't want to change. Now, we all have projects and desires, but we have to give ourselves the means to achieve them. This draw is directing your attention to the dangers you run if you don't listen to the advice of others. But it also gives you a strong message: open yourself to the world, open up to others. The diversity of human thought is immeasurable wealth. The more you listen, the more you learn, the more you have the capacity to become the person you want to be.

Fatality, Fire and Table

One of your exes is still thinking about you. He doesn't dare come back to you because he wants to avoid putting you in a complicated situation. He regrets his past mistakes and thinks he has acquired some distance on the situation, he is full of good resolutions and new desire for you... The character of the second card shows that this ex is now looking to the future. What should you do? There's not only one answer.

We often only keep the good memories, the bad ones fade faster and sometimes we prefer to forget them. When someone from our past comes back into our lives, we must be wary of the effect that makes us forget the bad times we spent with him, and remember only the good. So that we quickly want to recommit to someone from whom we separated, because we forget about the reasons for the separation, which are often likely to recur if the relationship is restored. Do you see what I mean?

The cards here show that someone from your past is thinking about you, but they are also there to warn you of danger: do not listen to your immediate emotional response, and remember to weigh the pros and cons of possibly getting back together with this person. Clearly, this return is not without its dangers for you. Think back to the reasons for your separation, the things he may have said then, and think about what you want for your future.

Do you believe you'll be given new opportunities? Do you think that new doors could open for you in December? I would like to send you an e-mail to look at these questions in more depth because this draw indicates lots of new opportunities in your life.

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Star Woman, Disease and Friendship

You would like to tell your friends what they should be doing in their lives. You like making them open their eyes about subjects that seem obvious to you. But, have you ever thought about what they may think about your interference? "Mind your own business!" is perhaps something they have already said to you. You bet. Telling someone what they should do is often viewed poorly.

This draw shows that you sometimes interfere too much in the lives of the people around you. It may interesting to give your opinion sometimes, but beware not to offend them by imposing your way of doing things. Each person is different and uses what seems logical to themselves. You need to use a medicine dropper when you're giving advice, otherwise you run the risk that people will get cross and take offense.

That may be what has happened to you recently, the cards show a recent event during which you may have offended someone with your words. This is the risk you run when you interfere too much in other people's lives. Advise, yes. But don't dictate. Would you like someone to tell you that you don't get out enough and you should be a bit more active? No. It's unpleasant. And this is understandable. So, don't forget, and don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. By following this advice you will calm your relationships with others and increase your social attractiveness.