Temperance, Wheel of Fortune and The Empress

You've already said, "If only I had known before, I would have acted differently...". This is the point of this draw. It's warning you of something that will happen in December in connection with your emotional situation. An event that could shake things up. Being aware of it enables you to anticipate it and accommodate it better, to exploit its true value better.

This is a meeting. A new person or someone who has already had a place in your heart in the past, he will present himself as ingenuous and simple, with the goal of seducing you. Yes, this man is determined to convince you that he is good looking, intelligent, humorous and made to live with you. He will quickly reveal intimate characteristics that you could not have imagined. This soul baring will please you because it is a proof of great trust. A rare proof you need to know to interpret properly. In this case, you should thank him and reward him for this action.

This meeting could change your destiny in many ways. It is not certain that you will choose to get involved with this person; you have your life, you don't necessarily want to. Yet this man has opened a breach in you, and lit a small light that had been dormant for a long time. The future will never be the same and, whatever your decision, this episode will remain engraved in your memory.

The Devil, The High Priestess and The Lovers

How long will you continue to allow this person to humiliate you before starting to tell him what you really think and defending yourself? The cards tell us that you are being weakened by a superior, whose words are regularly dragging you down. It's hard to stay positive when a person is always trying to bring you down or make you understand that you are not up to par.

Taking action is the only way to stop this. You need to take your courage in both hands and stand up to the person so that this problem ceases as soon as possible. Once done, your daily life will be pleasant once again, and perhaps you will even come to appreciate the time you spend with that person. He was your executioner yesterday, and tomorrow he will be your friend. Why? Because there was communication and your relationship has been re-balanced.

The cards also show that you lack confidence in yourself and that is the weakness that allows this person to walk all you over. Try to act calmer: you will see that others step back and will think twice before imposing things on you. You need to understand that it is you who decides how others treat you. If you lack strength you may be under pressure. If you show that you have a strong character, it will be more difficult to get at you.

The Hierophant and The Chariot

You would like to tell your friends what they should be doing in their lives. You like making them open their eyes about subjects that seem obvious to you. But, have you ever thought about what they may think about your interference? "Mind your own business!" is perhaps something they have already said to you. You bet. Telling someone what they should do is often viewed poorly.

This draw shows that you sometimes interfere too much in the lives of the people around you. It may interesting to give your opinion sometimes, but beware not to offend them by imposing your way of doing things. Each person is different and uses what seems logical to themselves. You need to use a medicine dropper when you're giving advice, otherwise you run the risk that people will get cross and take offense.

That may be what has happened to you recently, the cards show a recent event during which you may have offended someone with your words. This is the risk you run when you interfere too much in other people's lives. Advise, yes. But don't dictate. Would you like someone to tell you that you don't get out enough and you should be a bit more active? No. It's unpleasant. And this is understandable. So, don't forget, and don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you. By following this advice you will calm your relationships with others and increase your social attractiveness.